Deep Throating.
Guys, you dig it. A lot it seems.
And us gals dig that you dig it. But let me let you in on a little secret: it can be uncomfortable for us. Not always, but the possibility is definitely there.
It seems that you guys are just happy that we're down in that vicinity that you sometimes tend to just go for broke. I'm happy to give you a BJ, but if you want DT you're going to have to play nicely.
So, let me fill you in on why a bit of patience can work wonders....
We have this little thing called a gag reflex. It is an automatic response that our bodies have to prevent us from choking. So, if you just ram your little soldier down our throat, well, that gag reflex kicks in. This is something to be respectful of if your member is above average in size (and even if it is "just" average). If you are long and you have girth, well, odds are you're going to trigger the reflex which isn't so much fun for us. So if you make an effort to play nicely, we're more likely to want to play nicely back.
I was recently with a guy who says he likes it when I gag. Apparently it feels good to him, and it plays to the notion that his mini-me is THAT big that the only way to get it down is for me to gag it down.
Whatever does it for you guys.
But guys here's the thing, when you've got your willy in our throat is is damn near impossible for us to breathe. So, when we start pulling back that is not a cue for you to ram it further. We need oxygen too ya know!
Slow and steady is a good way to go. This is not the time to go all carpe diem on us. If you just ram it down there, to put it bluntly, it hurts. So forget what you've seen in countless porn videos. Don't just grab a handful of our hair and go for broke. That isn't quite how it works in real life.
So, because we know you enjoy it, here are some tips for the ladies to help:
Mind Over Matter. Seriously. If you're convinced you're going to gag (and possibly vomit) then you probably will. So, relax. If you're tense you won't be able to fully open your throat.
Position. Position yourself in away that allows you to create a straight line from your mouth down your throat. Many find hanging your head over the edge of the bed to be a good position.
Lube. No, don't grab a tube of KY and lube him up (not sure how great that would taste), but make sure your mouth is wet and you've got him good and wet before you let him try to slide it back there.
Practice. Really. Get used to your gag reflex by brushing the back of your tongue with your toothbrush. Get used to where your reflex kicks in and eventually you'll learn how to get past it. When you're giving him a BJ take him in further to the back of your mouth. If you feel your reflex kick in hold him there as long as you can. This will eventually build up your resistance. You're not going to be the Deep Throat Master your first time trying. Take your time. You'll get there.
And an added bonus:
Let's be honest, most guys want us to swallow their stuff. And to be even more honest, it doesn't really taste all that great. So, once you've got him fully down your throat and he shoots off, he'll miss your taste buds. Win-win for you both!
xo
L
