Places to have sex outside this summer

There are many things to love about summer: going to the beach, iced coffee, or perhaps another season of Big Brother. Not the least of which is outdoor sex. Much like margaritas, sex can be even better when enjoyed al fresco. When the weather is warm and your horomones are fired up, here is a list of places to get it on this summer!

Your own backyard. This can be a great place to experiment with outdoor sex. You get all the sensory benefits of an outdoor experience while still having a bit of privacy.

On a roof, in a city, under the stars. The faint sound of traffic and people walking the streets your background soundtrack.

On a boat. Let the motion of the ocean set your pace.

In a tent in the woods. Just be sure to spray yourselves down with bug spray frist. Fly bites on naughty bits are no fun. No fun at all.

In the woods. Don't have a tent? Ok, no big. Go for a hike and somewhere along the way make yourselves horozontal and work up a different kind of sweat. There is just something raw and primal about having sex in nature. So yeah, try it.

On a big rock. (Hmmm...interesting. Never considered this one.)

In a dark alley. No safe, dark allies nearby? Thats ok, behind the movie theatre will do just fine!

On a picnic blanket on the beach. Just to make sure we're clear: ON a blanket. Sand in girly parts is a bit of a mood killer. Since we associate the beach with fun, vacation-like time, seaside loving can be quite exciting!

On a tire swing. I'll leave you to figure out the logistics of that one!

In a tree house. Don't have one? Borrow the 12-year old neighbour's. I'm sure they won't mind.

In a convertible with the top down. Just be sure to pull over first. (I know, it should go without saying, however when the mood strikes the mood strikes)

As always, sex is supposed to be fun. And outdoor sex just amps up the fun and makes it more primal. Just one small tip: do plan well where your outdoor adventure will take place. The last thing we want is for you to wind up with a public indecency charge. Much like fly bites on the naughty bits, that would be bad. Very very bad.

Got any to add? Any tried, tested and true locales for getting it on? Any that were an absolute flop? Let us know!

xoxo
L

Positions she enjoys

This just in: women like sex. They fantasize about sex just as much, if not more, as their male counterparts. Our fantasies cover the broad spectrum and various levels of kink. They almost always, however, include one of the five most popular positions among most women. The reason being is these positions include a perfect balance between difficulty and maximum pleasure. In other words, with these positions women enjoy loads of pleasure with minimal effort required to pull them off (yes, minimal effort. Really, who wants to have to deal with a flow chart to try to figure out the logistics of some positions? Yeah, I didn't think you would).

Now, don't worry. This isn't to say we don't love some of your favorites as well. We do. Sometimes we're good with acrobatic sex. When it comes down to the nitty gritty of it, there are some positions that just get women more wet than others.

Below is a list of the five most popular positions among women. Take note of them, boys. More importantly, USE THEM.

Private Lap Dance. Her on top. Many women love being on top for one simple reason: it makes her feel like she's in charge. And power is a heady aphrodisiac. Let her climb aboard and ride you off into the sunset. It may be tempting to just sit back and enjoy the ride, however if you want to really rock her world trace her breasts with your fingers or your tongue, trace your fingers down her sides. If she's on top facing you you also have access to a certain other hot spot of our's. Go there. No really, go there.

The comfort zone. aka: missionary. Don't overlook this one. It has potential for sorching hot sex. Why we like it? It feels great, and doesn't require gymnastics skills to pull it off. Take charge: lay her down, spread her legs apart by gently sliding your knee between them, place her wrists above her head and show her what you're made of. We often like displays of dominance in the bedroom (it is quite manly, you know) and this one allows you to be as subtle with it or as overt as you like. Want to take it to another level? Talk dirty. Lean in close and whisper a little something-something in her ear.

Stand at attention. Have her sit on a surface that stands level with your waist, then penetrate her as deeply as possible. The further her legs are spread the better (though remember what we said about acobatics? Yeah, some of us aren't that kind of flexible, so be gentle). Because her parts are now lined up with your parts this makes deep thrusting possible and incredibly easy for you, which also increases her chances of a g-spot O. So, clear a spot on the kitchen counter and get to it! (some men orgasm quite quickly with this one due to the deep thrusting. Don't be afraid to slow down, take a few deep breaths to get yourself under control again. Use this time for some manual stimulation on her)

Spoonful. The spoon makes for fabulous sex. Women like the feeling of her man's chest agaisnt her back and his arms wrapped around her. She also loves the feeling of being penetrated from behind. Why we love this? Because it is comfortable and still allows you to play with our breasts and our clitoris - and honestly most women can't get enough of that.

So, slide in behind her, pull her bottom backward and gently lift her leg up and back over your hip. Having her thighs speparated like this will make her feel delightfully naughty, and she'll probably arch her body to give you more access. Its comfortable and we enjoy it. Expect a great deal of moaning to ensue.

Hot diggity dog. Surprised to see doggy on the list? Many women love it (I'm one of them). In most cases we're wanting more than your average porn-flick style doggy. We want it to be a bit more intimate. Lean forward, whisper in our ear. Reach around and toy with our clit. Switch it up, pull us up into a kneeling position while you thrust. Women love doggy as long as you don't make us feel like objects.

As I mentioned earlier women love sex. We really do. And most of us will like at least one of these ones I just mentioned. Do remember, however, we may not like them all. Follow her cues, she'll pretty quickly tell you what she likes and what she doesn't. She will, however, likely be willing to experiment through them all for the sake of keeping things fresh. We do on occasion like kinky positions but sometimes we just want a man to penetrate us in a way we know will provide us with maximum pleasure. And one of these is sure to do it!

xoxo
L

Get a room

It is so easy in our day to day lives to forget to revel in the body of our beloved. There are dishes to be done, bills to pay, errands to run, and kids who have homework to be done. These things, among many others, make it difficult to remember to tap into our inner carnal desires. It is easy to lose sight of eachother when Fido is begging to be walked while your partner is fighting with your oldest to eat their broccoli. Removing yourselves for a night (or two) to a hotel to get away from it all can help you reconnect and respark some passion.

So now, with room key in hand, slip upstairs, close the door and leave the rest of the world behind.

Hotels offer couples a private, bed focused space that that encourages inhibitions to let loose. If budgets allow this can be a luxurious and indulging experience. Even in the cheaper hotels there is a bed and a door that closes to the rest of the world (want a nicer hotel at a 2-star price? Make use of some of those online discount booking sites - they definitely make such a rendez vous more budget friendly). Make this a safe, secret place where no fantasy is taboo and sensuality is the focus.

Guys, you get bonus points if you actually plan ahead and surprise us with a night away. So, find a hotel, book the room, arrange a babysitter then tell us its already done all we have to do is pack a bag and we're on our way. Wine on ice and flowers waiting for us earn you even more points. Jus'sayin.

Most hotels these days have room service. Use it. Order up a bottle of wine and some chocolate covered strawberries. If they have a spa book massages to allow you to relax. If there is something else you want or need ask the hotel staff. Trust me, they've heard and seen it all. Don't be shy, ask.

Because you're not at home automatically your normal, usual patterns are disrupted leaving space for eroticism and fantasy. And you're leaving soon so there is a sense of anonymity and urgency which heightens your senses. And you're not sure if people can see in, but the idea is sexy. If you're in a multistory hotel pull the drapes open and go at it. Odds are no one will be able to see in, unless you're right next to an equally tall building, but the thought that somone could maybe possibly catch you is exhilarating. It feels public without being public.

Picture it ladies: you've just stepped out of the shower, you walk out onto the balcony in your robe to admire the view, he comes up behind you, slips a hand under your robe.......... (heh?!...) if you're more adventurous you can keep going right there, have him bend you over the balcony railing. Not quite so adventurous, let him continue fondling you under robe then move inside for the main event. Seriously, how could you not find either of those options intensely hot?

So, make yourselves a reservation, check in and make use of that do not disturb sign. Most importantly enjoy! That is, afterall, what this is all about.

Got a hot hotel sex story? We want to hear it! As always if you prefer some anonymity feel free to email either of us, we'll be more than happy to post for you!



xoxo
L

The art of quickie sex

Ok boys, we know there are times when all you want to do is take your woman and have your sexual way with her, and get on with your day without having to go through all the foreplay and afterplay process. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with quickie sex. Believe it or not there are plenty of women who enjoy it just as much as you do, with out all the fluffy stuff.

The catch, however, is that you have to know how to go about enjoying a quickie without making her feel like you're going to roll over, light a cigarette and leave a crisp twenty on the nightstand.

Read on....

Foreplay, all day

Foreplay isn't something you do ten minutes before you plan to stick your willy in her. Foreplay should be something you do all the time. Whether its complimenting her on the way she smells, or the way she looks, or calling her in the middle of the day to tell her you were imagining yourself licking her, foreplay is something that keeps her mentally stimulated.

And if she knows you desire her all the time then bending her over the kitchen table when you get home for a quick one that is all about innate desire is a wonderful thing. And she'll think so too.

Talk to her

Prepare her for what is going to happen. Obviously, don't give her a play-by-play, rather make a sexual comment about her body that will get her thinking.

Kiss her first

Before you start pumping and pounding away kiss her. A deep, slow, wet kiss. Make her melt and turn her on.

Feed her ego
While you're touching her in places the sun doesn't shine, tell her you've been thinking all day about getting your hands on her. Make her feel sexy by boosting her sexual morale.

Make sure she's wet
Really, its only fair. Make sure she's lubricated before you put your manhood inside her. The last thing you want to do is hurt her. Gently feel around her girly bits to make sure she's wet before you attempt to put yourself inside her.

Don't create a comfortable atmosphere
Forget about the candles and seductive music. That isn't what a quickie is about. Its about spontaneity. It is totally ok if you're in the living room, the TV is on and your pants are around your ankles. Thats the beauty of spontaneous, passionate, quickie sex.

(still with me?......)

Let her know you're excited
Make some noise. Moan and groan. Let her know you're excited and its not just about the release - even if it is. I'm not saying to start screaming like a girl, but give her some indication you're into it.

Put her on top

But don't say "I want to see you on top". Put her there. Like, physically put her there. Putting her in a dominant position will accomplish a few things. First, for some women, her being on top increases her chances of reaching orgasm. And it'll make her feel less like she's being taken over, though so women do enjoy that.

Don't ignore her
You don't have to stay and cuddle for an hour after, but don't make her feel like she doesn't exist either. If you were watching TV before, then sit with her, put your arm around her for a bit afterwards, if she was in the kitchen then pull yourself away for a bit and go hangout in the kitchen with her. Basically, don't make her feel like what just occurred was only about you. Keep in mind many women feel their most vulnerable after sex. So pay her a bit of attention afterwards.

Don't make it habit.
While quick, unadulterated sex is great on occasion don't make it habit. If you constantly barrage her with 5-minute sessions she'll get bored and so well you. So don't make it norm.

Remember its about both of you. Although 5-minutes isn't usually enough time for most women to reach orgasm, a quickie can still be exciting and equally pleasurable for both of you, so long as you're not completely insensitive to her.

And remember, if you keep a woman's mind excited her body will follow.

Now go, have fun and make it quick!

xoxo

L

M I A

Hi all...

Just wanted to pop in to apologize for my absence. Things have been a tad crazy in my life for the last few weeks and a few things had to take position on the back burner. Once things quiet down, hopefully in a week or two, I'll be back with you!

Sit tight! You won't be rid of me that easily!

xoxo
L