The art of quickie sex

Ok boys, we know there are times when all you want to do is take your woman and have your sexual way with her, and get on with your day without having to go through all the foreplay and afterplay process. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with quickie sex. Believe it or not there are plenty of women who enjoy it just as much as you do, with out all the fluffy stuff.

The catch, however, is that you have to know how to go about enjoying a quickie without making her feel like you're going to roll over, light a cigarette and leave a crisp twenty on the nightstand.

Read on....

Foreplay, all day

Foreplay isn't something you do ten minutes before you plan to stick your willy in her. Foreplay should be something you do all the time. Whether its complimenting her on the way she smells, or the way she looks, or calling her in the middle of the day to tell her you were imagining yourself licking her, foreplay is something that keeps her mentally stimulated.

And if she knows you desire her all the time then bending her over the kitchen table when you get home for a quick one that is all about innate desire is a wonderful thing. And she'll think so too.

Talk to her

Prepare her for what is going to happen. Obviously, don't give her a play-by-play, rather make a sexual comment about her body that will get her thinking.

Kiss her first

Before you start pumping and pounding away kiss her. A deep, slow, wet kiss. Make her melt and turn her on.

Feed her ego
While you're touching her in places the sun doesn't shine, tell her you've been thinking all day about getting your hands on her. Make her feel sexy by boosting her sexual morale.

Make sure she's wet
Really, its only fair. Make sure she's lubricated before you put your manhood inside her. The last thing you want to do is hurt her. Gently feel around her girly bits to make sure she's wet before you attempt to put yourself inside her.

Don't create a comfortable atmosphere
Forget about the candles and seductive music. That isn't what a quickie is about. Its about spontaneity. It is totally ok if you're in the living room, the TV is on and your pants are around your ankles. Thats the beauty of spontaneous, passionate, quickie sex.

(still with me?......)

Let her know you're excited
Make some noise. Moan and groan. Let her know you're excited and its not just about the release - even if it is. I'm not saying to start screaming like a girl, but give her some indication you're into it.

Put her on top

But don't say "I want to see you on top". Put her there. Like, physically put her there. Putting her in a dominant position will accomplish a few things. First, for some women, her being on top increases her chances of reaching orgasm. And it'll make her feel less like she's being taken over, though so women do enjoy that.

Don't ignore her
You don't have to stay and cuddle for an hour after, but don't make her feel like she doesn't exist either. If you were watching TV before, then sit with her, put your arm around her for a bit afterwards, if she was in the kitchen then pull yourself away for a bit and go hangout in the kitchen with her. Basically, don't make her feel like what just occurred was only about you. Keep in mind many women feel their most vulnerable after sex. So pay her a bit of attention afterwards.

Don't make it habit.
While quick, unadulterated sex is great on occasion don't make it habit. If you constantly barrage her with 5-minute sessions she'll get bored and so well you. So don't make it norm.

Remember its about both of you. Although 5-minutes isn't usually enough time for most women to reach orgasm, a quickie can still be exciting and equally pleasurable for both of you, so long as you're not completely insensitive to her.

And remember, if you keep a woman's mind excited her body will follow.

Now go, have fun and make it quick!

xoxo

L