What Women Want

....in bed.

I'm sure (or hope?) its common knowledge that, generally, women want more sensual, take-your-time foreplay. We also rather enjoy it when you don't just roll over and fall asleep immediately afterwards. But what about once you've got our motors running? What do we want then? Read on.....

Use Your Tongue Ok, that doesn't necessarily mean we want you to go "down town" (although sometimes that is nice). We like compliments. But be creative. The standard "you're so beautiful" won't always cut it. Be specific. Aim for something along the lines of "your fabulous ass drives me crazy!", and telling us "that feels good" works wonders - the benefit of that little gem is twofold: if you tell us whatever we're doing feels good we're more likely to keep going (bonus for you!) and knowing whatever we're doing is doing it for you turns us on more. You see where this is going?

Make Love to us Head to Toe Sex for us, most times, starts in the mind. We don't go from zero to LIFT OFF as quickly as you can, and do. Light some candles. Play some soft music. Rose petals on the bed. No, not saying this needs to be done every time, but break it out every so often. Let us know you're paying attention to us. Make us feel special and wanted. Once you touch our body make sure your touches and caresses are a full-body affair: don't just focus on boobs or our girly bits. Focus a bit on less obvious areas: gentle kisses on the neck (a sweet spot for many women), trace circles on her lower back. In fact, go for these areas first before the more obvious hot spots.

Man Up Take the lead. There is nothing more masculine than you taking the lead, showing us you have direction and you're going for it. Don't ask questions in bed. Ever. Drop the inhibitions. And stop being gentle. We want to be taken and to be ravished. Dirty talk that would make us blush outside the bedroom will wildly turn us on now. We want to feel you are wild for us because of us. Don't get us wrong, sometimes we want a more gentle session, but sometimes we just like to be taken. Right here, right now. Go.

Just Do It Honestly the size of your organ doesn't matter to us as much as it matters to you. Its more of an issue in your mind - men tend to fret over the size of their stuff. Really, we don't care as much about it as you do. We care more about stiffness and staying power. So, stop worrying that its not big enough and just get to it and get it done!

Chime in - got a suggestion of your own? Share it! Add your own ideas, elaborate, yay or nay - either way, we want to hear from you!

xoxo
-Layla