Let me be the first to admit the very thought of a striptease made me want to run for the hills. You want me to do what? Oh, really? I'll get back to you as soon as I stop laughing. However, I bit the bullet and went for it. I can't say it was the most graceful or glamorous tease ever given, but once I got into it it was fun, as was the bumping uglies that took place afterwards!
Any woman can give a great striptease, even if you're body conscious or naturally shy. Surprise him with a striptease. He's sure to remember it. Need a few pointers to get started? Ok, here you go....
What to wear: Show some skin and choose clothing that accentuates your best features. Sexy lingerie, baby dolls, and cute little dresses are all great options. Whatever you decide to wear make sure it's easily removed.
Panties: make sure your undies show off your fabulous tushie and frame your cheeks. We all have underwear that no one else should see, and seducing your man is not the time for the comfy panties. Try on booty shorts, thongs, and g-strings to see what you feel best in and makes your ass look scrumptious.
Shoes: the choice whether or not to wear shoes is a personal one. If you decide to wear them stilettos are a great option as the high heels will make your legs look long, lean and fabulous. Worried about breaking an ankle in stilettos? No worries. Dancing barefoot is sexy too.
Stockings: knee high or thigh high, with or without garters. They'll be a sexy addition to whatever outfit you choose to wear.
Props: Use a rose or a feather to entice him. While you're dancing use the rose or feather to tickle him from his cheek down his chest, down his arm to his fingertips without letting him touch you back. Sit on a chair, spread your feet just wide enough to give him a bit of a peek, sit up tall and dust yourself with the feather while he watches.
Whipped cream, chocolate sauce and any other dessert type thing on your body is a great idea if you want him to be more than a spectator.
Set the stage: find some music that makes you want to move your body, use low indirect lighting - a combo of soft lamp light and candles works well, if your bedroom is lacking ambiance throw some extra richly colored pillows and blankets to your bed.
Get comfortable with dancing: if you can, take time to practice. You don't necessarily have to choreograph a routine, though if you want to go for it, but get used to moving your body to music, find the rhythm and go with it. And get rid of the "I'm not hot enough" thoughts that creep into your head. Because, really, you are TOTALLY hot, so work your hotness!
The most important thing is to be yourself. Have fun. Pick and choose from these ideas and go for it. The fun is knowing you're driving him wild, not necessarily the moves themselves.
When you feel sexy you look sexy. If there was ever a time to ooze sex, this is it! Most importantly have fun! This may well be a high point in your sexual relationship; you may just find you want to do it again and again....... You never know until you try it. Get up there, strut your stuff! What are you waiting for?
xoxo
L
Note from Av: Ladies, trust us on this one. Put your insecurities on the shelf - know that any of your features that you're picking on, he's getting an eyeful of - and loving. No woman is hotter to your man than the one, right in front of him, taking initiative, and showing him how much she wants to have sex with him. Get comfortable with yourself, know that he LOVES it, and let loose!
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